Two Pieces of Marriage Advice

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Marriage can be beautiful. It can be filled with joy, companionship, and growth. Yet, it can also present its fair share of challenges and uncertainties. As an associate marriage and family therapist, I have had the privilege of working closely with couples, witnessing their unique stories, and helping them navigate the intricate dynamics of their relationships. Through these experiences, I have come to understand that while each partnership is distinct, fundamental pieces of advice hold true for many couples seeking to have a lasting relationship. 

In this blog post, I would like to share with you two pieces of marriage advice that I believe can improve the quality of your relationship. These insights are not quick fixes or magic formulas, but instead tips to help improve your relationship. I'm not suggesting in any way that these are the only two things that will give you a happy, healthy marriage. Whether you are just beginning your marital journey or have been together for years, I hope this will help your relationship. 

Marriage Advice from a Utah Marriage Counselor

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Keep in mind there is more advice I could give and hopefully more to come. Using these two tips will improve your marriage. It doesn’t mean these are the only skills you need to have a good relationship. It also doesn’t mean they will cure past hurt but they can help you connect and feel seen in a relationship. 

  1. Express appreciation daily 

Expressing appreciation for your spouse on a daily basis has the potential to profoundly improve your marriage. When you make a conscious effort to acknowledge and value your partner's positive qualities, actions, and contributions, you help them feel accepted and loved. By consistently expressing gratitude, you strengthen the emotional connection between you and your spouse, creating more understanding and support. This practice also builds mutual respect, as it shows that you recognize and value your partner's efforts, no matter how small they may be. When both partners feel respected and appreciated, it cultivates a positive mindset within the relationship, shifting the focus away from negativity and criticism.

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This positive outlook promotes feelings of joy, contentment, and satisfaction. Regularly expressing appreciation not only boosts relationship satisfaction but also encourages acts of kindness and generosity. By showing gratitude, you inspire your spouse to reciprocate, creating a cycle of care and support that enhances the bond between you. Ultimately, incorporating the practice of expressing daily appreciation can create a stronger, more fulfilling marriage built on love, trust, and mutual appreciation.

2. Understand your spouse has limitations 

Recognizing and understanding that your spouse has limitations can greatly benefit your relationship in numerous ways. First and foremost, it fosters empathy and compassion within the partnership. By acknowledging that your spouse, like any human being, has their own set of limitations, you develop a deeper understanding of their struggles, challenges, and areas where they may need support. This understanding allows you to approach your interactions with patience, kindness, and a non-judgmental attitude. It’s important to understand that your spouse isn’t going to be like Mother Theresa 24/7 just like you won’t be either, and it’s ok. 

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Understanding your spouse's limitations helps to manage expectations. It helps you be realistic about their abilities and their capacity to fulfill certain roles or responsibilities. Understanding their limitations helps you avoid placing undue pressure on them, which can often lead to frustration, disappointment, and conflict within the relationship. When you know your spouse has limitations when they are tired, grumpy, or performing less than they usually do it doesn’t mean it has anything to do with you. It’s because they are human. Don’t expect your spouse to be on top of their game all of the time because it’s not human. 

Couples counseling near Provo, Utah can help

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Couples counseling can be incredibly beneficial for your marriage. It provides a safe and supportive space for you and your partner to talk about your feelings, concerns, and challenges. A skilled therapist can help you improve communication, understand each other better, and find constructive solutions to problems. They can teach you effective strategies to resolve conflicts, build trust, and strengthen your bond. Couples counseling offers guidance and tools to navigate through difficult times and make your relationship healthier and happier. Remember, seeking help doesn't mean your relationship is failing. It shows that you care about your marriage and are willing to work together to make it stronger.

Start working with a Utah Marriage Counselor Online 

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You can have the help of a marriage counselor to strengthen your relationship. You don’t have to do it all on your own. Couples counseling can help. This Utah Counseling Practice has a marriage counselor that specializes in couples therapy. To begin counseling follow the steps below: 

  1. Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation 

  2. Meet with a couples therapist 

  3. Improve your relationship 

Online therapy in Utah also means I work with clients all over the state. I work with clients in St. George, Cedar City, Provo, Heber City, Salt Lake City, Logan, and more. 

Other mental health services at Marcus Hunt Therapy 

Couples counseling isn’t the only counseling service offered at this Utah Counseling Clinic. Other mental health services include EMDR therapy, premarital counseling, therapy for men, ADHD treatment, anxiety therapy, PTSD treatment, and more. Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation today to see how I can help. 

About the Author 

Marcus Hunt AMFT, a couples therapist near Salt lake City. Marcus Hunt Therapy provides marriage counseling in Provo, Utah.

Marcus Hunt is a dedicated and compassionate Associate Marriage and Family Therapist based in Provo, Utah. With a deep passion for helping couples navigate the complexities of their relationships, Marcus has devoted his career to fostering healthy and fulfilling marriages. Having completed his education and training in the field of marriage and family therapy, Marcus brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to his practice. He holds a master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from a respected institution, where he gained a solid foundation in the theoretical and practical aspects of therapy.

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